Monday, January 25, 2010

Love in Action

In I John 3:18, the wise apostle writes, "Dear children, let us not love with words or tongue but with actions and in truth." In other words, don't just talk about love, do it. We are fairly proficient, particularly in this national capital region, in talking a good game, whether it is a political hot potato, fiscal challenge, or simply a competition between friends. But talking is not the end-all when it comes to exercising significant change...there must also be meaningful action.

New Testament writer James said that it is not enough to tell a person without a coat to go and be warmed...to truly make a difference one must give the coat that helps keep another warm. As the old adage says, "actions speak louder than words."

The pictures from Haiti are hard to fathom. Hundreds of thousands dead, millions homeless or at the very least, displaced by the terrible earthquakes that have ravaged the country. We might grieve such hardship and mourn such devastating loss of life...to do so is to recognize the need. But if that is all we do, we have done little more than the disinterested person James describes who did nothing to warm a cold body and soul. How will we respond to the massive needs in the country of Haiti?

Westwood will do so in at least four ways. First, we pray. This is not a last resort when nothing else can be done. Prayer is the first response when there is any need. Second, we receive a special offering February 14th...indeed, a perfect day for a "love offering." This offering will be divided among our ministry partners, The Cooperative Baptist Fellowship, and the Baptist World Alliance, who have persons on the ground in Haiti and are working through local congregations there to meet needs. Third, in March we will receive medical and personal hygiene supplies that will be shipped to our ministry partners there that will be used for the foreseeable future. Finally, we hope at some point in the future to send a team to Haiti, though we know that will probably be quite some time before this happens.

Is love truly love if it does not motivate one to action? To love others in Jesus' name is to show that love. I invite you to join the Westwood family as we seek to love the people of Haiti in word and action.

Jim Abernathy

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

A Starting Place

During this season, a great deal of time is spent pondering the future and talking about all that lies ahead, and all that we are going to do to bring meaningful change to our lives and the lives of others around us. Resolutions are offered as verbal proof of our good intentions. Sometimes we follow through...sometimes we don't. In the heat of the moment, the shadow of guilt, or the blazing light of inspiration brought on by the threshold of another new year, it is easy to make resolutions, but the dark, cold days of January have a way of tempering our good intentions, and the momentum of hopeful expression gives way to the deflation brought on by the difficulty of following through.

Perhaps we try to change too much...to so radically change our lives that given our other responsibilities and distractions, our actions simply can't keep pace with our good intentions. Perhaps there is one thing, one aspect, one characteristic we could focus on and from that one focal point, meaningful change could truly occur.

Jesus said, "A new commandment I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another."(John 13:34-35, TNIV) We often speak of impacting the world around us and we think globally, as we should. But what if we allowed that love to impact our world, beginning right where we live, work, go to school, and worship. What if, for this new year, we focused on loving others as Christ has commanded. Would such radical change make a difference?

Maybe that's a starting place for you and me. Losing weight, managing time more effectively, taking up a new hobby, keeping your room clean...these are all worthy goals, but maybe, just maybe, making the love of Christ the priority for the new year will help you and me put everything in its proper perspective.

May the love of Christ be yours to share throughout 2010!

Jim Abernathy

Thursday, December 17, 2009

Where Have You Been???

Life gets complicated at times. Distractions are many and some things just don't get done! Issues and events, expected and unexpected, demand our attention and things we have been doing can be pushed aside or forgotten. Such is the story of this blog. I started writing this blog several months ago and have kept it current...until the last month. I could list the many things that have commanded my attention over the last several weeks, but then you would have to get out your list of complications to compare and we would both wind up whining on each other's shoulders.

Perhaps someone might bring up better time management, or a re-prioritization of schedule and focus. Someone might say, "You're doing too much...you need to let go of something." There is truth in all of these concerns, but I also know that at times, life simply presents you more than you can effectively handle and something slips. Most of us could manage our time better, but then again, many of us do a pretty good job given the number of dates, events, and life situations we have to handle. Yes, it is good to occasionally evaluate an re-evaluate our schedules and the way we manage them, but so many of the things that demand our time and effort are important to us and to others. It is easy to tell another that they should let go of something, but are we willing to let go of those things that are important to us? Sometimes we just get overwhelmed in the busyness of this 21st century world, and some things just don't get done. I am not offering an excuse or rationalization here for poor performance. I am, however, reminding myself, and hopefully you as well, that grace must often be applied in the context of our and other's shortcomings. To recognize our failures and commit ourselves once more to the tasks before us is to admit our humanness, and to strive toward a better understanding of who we and others are. And at the heart of this discussion is the One whose grace, mercy, and forgiveness restores and empowers us for the tasks that need to be done.

I will keep a closer eye on this blog, and I hope you will too. I will also seek to live more fully in the grace, mercy, and forgiveness of the Christ, whose birth we celebrate...and I hope you will too!

May you know the wonder of God, present within you through the gift of Bethlehem's baby, during this busy and blessed season.

Jim Abernathy

Monday, November 2, 2009

Who is Your Hero???

What does it mean to be a hero? Our society struggles with the concept of heroism, at times conflicted over whether to build our heroes up or tear them down. The late tennis great, Arthur Ashe, was once quoted on the subject of heroes. He said, "True heroism is remarkably sober, very undramatic. It is not the urge to surpass all others at whatever cost, but the urge to serve others at whatever cost.” To serve, regardless of the cost...now that is an intriguing definition of heroism.

There were many in ancient Palestine who believed that Jesus just might be the hero they had been waiting for. His words were powerful, his ability to draw large crowds, amazing, his reputation as a miracle worker, captivating...and yet, he was ultimately crucified because he did not turn out to be the hero that many thought he should have been. Perhaps his words were to blame...words like those found in Matthew 20:26-28; "...whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be your slave...just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many."

To become great, according to Jesus, is to become a servant to others. That doesn't sound very heroic to a modern world bent on the sensational...enamoured with celebrity, and yet, to serve others selflessly in Jesus' name is to follow the way of Christ, regardless of cost. "Whoever wants to be my disciple," Jesus said, "must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me." Perhaps people of faith need to redefine their understanding of heroism. The kind of heroism Jesus encourages is often tedious, dirty work that might go largely unnoticed, but that doesn't diminish its value....perhaps that is the greatest indicator of a heroic act.

"The urge to serve others...whatever the cost." Ashe's definition is a good one...it finds it greatest example in the servant of all, Jesus the Christ. As followers of Christ, may we be heroes to others in Jesus' name.

Jim Abernathy

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Change

There's an old Baptist joke that goes something like this: How many Baptists does it take to change a light bulb? CHANGE!?!?!?!?! Now the joke may lose a little something as it makes its way through the blogosphere, but the idea translates well in most any environment....most of us don't like change!

Yet, at the heart of the Christian faith is the undeniable message of change. In Matthew 18, Jesus said, "...unless you change...you will never enter the kingdom of heaven." Paul wrote in II Corinthians 5:17 that "if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: the old has gone, the new is here!" (TNIV) To find forgiveness and grace in the living Christ is to find change every day. Faith calls us out of the ruts that trap us in the predictable patterns of daily living and challenges us to walk along new pathways that are defined by the steps of Christ. As he called his disciples to join him, he said simply, "Follow me."

We are certainly cautious about change, but apart from it, what a dull world this would be. As people of faith, our hope is built on the transformation that comes through faith in the risen Christ. CHANGE!?!?!?!?!? Yes, and thank God for it!

Friday, September 25, 2009

An Arlington Afternoon

I officiated at a graveside service at Arlington Cemetery recently. To stand in that place and view row after row of marble head stones, representing lives of men and women who have made such sacrifice and offered such willing service to their country is inspiring to say the least. As the caisson carried the remains, the soldiers marched in step, the guns were fired, and Taps was played, everyone who participated in the moment was reminded of the value of every life and of the call to service that many answer on behalf of their country. One does not witness such an event without being challenged to realize that life is precious, and that commitment to complete the tasks we are given is vital to the success of a nation.

Most of us won't visit Arlington Cemetery too often, but its hallowed hills quietly remind us when we visit that we are indeed debtors to the sacrificial service of others. It is a place that reminds us all of the significance of service and the blessing of the freedoms we too often take for granted.

If you haven't been to Arlington lately, take an afternoon, walk the grounds and witness for your self the sense of reverence and gratitude that are experienced when one finds one's self in such a place. In doing so you will honor the service and sacrifice of others, and perhaps be challenged to consider anew how you might better serve.

Jim Abernathy

Friday, September 11, 2009

9/11...When Peace Overcomes Fear

"Do not fret because of evil men..." (Psalm 37:1)

The words of the Psalmist seem somewhat naive in this twenty-first century world. There are men and women who do evil things, sometimes in the context of greed and for personal gain; sometimes out of a warped sense of allegiance to their country or in support of their particular ideological perspective; sometimes in the name of religion.

September 11 reminds us of evil that has been done for reasons listed above. I had only been at Westwood a few weeks, when the events of 9/11 literally exploded before our eyes. I remember the sense of shock that came as we listened to the radio broadcasts in the church office and later watched the painful video replays of those devastating moments. Fear, anger, suspicion, and uncertainty were unwelcome guests as that day unfolded, and one could argue that they still lurk just beneath the surface in many of our minds in anticipation of another such attack.

David knew the joy of victory and the terrible sting of personal loss and grief. He wrote in the thirty-seventh Psalm, "Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him; do not fret when men succeed in their ways, when they carry out their wicked schemes. Refrain from anger and turn from wrath; do not fret...it leads only to evil." In the aftermath of evil acts, one can easily allow the emotions of the moment to overcome, clouding one's perspective...motivating one to act on the darkest expressions of human weakness. But there is another choice. Again, David writes in Psalm 37, "Turn from evil and do good." These are words that speak of intentional actions that do not destroy in fits of retaliation, but build in expectation of a better day. This wisdom is summed up in verse 37 of this great Psalm; "...there is a future for the man of peace."

I stood in the pulpit at Westwood Baptist Church on the Sunday after 9/11, and preached from this text. The following is an excerpt from that sermon.

"Amidst the rubble of broken buildings and broken lives...amidst the austerity of shattered dreams and unfulfilled promise...amidst the painful questions of faith that have no easy answers, again we are reminded that there is a future for the man, the woman, of peace. Understand that this peace is not defined by ceasing hostilities or hushed rhetoric. It is not gained through crushing military victory or hasty retaliation. It is defined by a relationship which empowers a person to face the dangers and uncertainties of this world with confidence and hope. This peace is defined by the One who said, "Peace I leave with you, my peace I give to you, not as the world gives do I give to you, therefore, let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.'"

The message on 9/11/09 is the same as it was in those dark hours of 9/11/01..."Do not fret because of evil men." May the peace of Christ be with you on this day and every day.


JKA