Friday, June 24, 2011

The Perfect Summer Day

It has been said that "a perfect summer day is when the sun is shining, the breeze is blowing, the birds are singing, and the lawn mower is broken." On a hot day like today, the latter is certainly true! Summer is a wonderfully unique season that literally opens new doors of opportunity...yes, to experience the great outdoors, but also to consider and participate in certain activities that are unique to the season. Mowing the lawn may be one of these, but there are others, particularly within the fellowship known as Westwood Baptist Church.

Summer brings VBS, Impact Virginia!, PASSPORTkids! Camp, as well as summer seminars, special fellowships, and events like the Echo food drive and Springfield Gardens back to school celebration. Summer is not necessarily a time to slow down, but a rich opportunity to experience the grace and love of God at work in these and other unique summer events. If you go to our church website, you will find a link on the front page to several special summer events that you can take part in, and invite a friend or neighbor to join you.

A perfect summer day is more than a broken lawnmower. At Westwood, it is celebrating God's presence with us at the baseball game, camp, worship and fellowship opportunities. Make the most of these wonderful summer days. You can always borrow the neighbor's mower and cut the grass tomorrow.

Jim Abernathy

Friday, June 17, 2011

Patterns

The Message translates the last part of Ephesians 6:4 with this admonition to fathers: "Take them (children) by the hand and lead them in the way of the Master." There is nothing so significant in the life of a young child as a good example. Children look for patterns upon which to build their own lives. They are truly blessed when they see the example of Christ in one or both of their parents.

My dad died nearly ten years ago, and yet the memories of his example are still fresh in my mind. I remember witnessing his compassion when he hurt with those who hurt, his kindness when confronting those who did not always receive him well, his tenacity to continue moving forward when he could easily have quit, and his commitment to living the faith he held dear. He was not a perfect man, but his example helped me and others follow in the way of Christ, and for that, I am truly grateful.

There is no greater calling for any parent or grandparent, than to take a child by the hand and lead them in the way of Christ. I am grateful that I have had such an example, and continue to pray that I will be that example to my son and to others.

Jim Abernathy

Saturday, June 11, 2011

Breathing

Martin Luther King once said, "To be a Christian without prayer is no more possible than to be alive without breathing." Many preschoolers, striving to get their way in the give and take power struggle that often accompanies their relationship with their parents, know how to hold their breath. To do so, at least in their young minds, is to gain control over their hapless parents whom they believe will surely give in, even if it means the child may turn a certain shade of blue. Of course, if they hold out long enough, parents can usually outlast the child for sooner or later, he or she gives up because air is needed to sustain breathing which is needed to sustain life. (There is, however, usually a "Plan B" that follows, and for some resourceful children, even a Plan C, D, or E.)

Breathing is necessary for living. Likewise, prayer is necessary for Christian growth and health. Jesus often called his disciples to prayer, and he set the example before them of seeking a quiet, solitary place for prayer and contemplation. In the busyness of life, we too often try to sustain our relationship with Christ apart from meaningful prayer. We may offer a quick request for an ailing friend or family member, or express a question of faith that we quickly lose interest in because we fail to scratch beneath the surface to mine the depths of God's wisdom for our particular need. In the challenges we face we find ourselves gasping for that which will sustain our faith, like a hiker experiencing the thin air of altitude, or the swimmer, plunged too deep beneath the surface, who desperately needs her lungs to expand and be filled with fresh, clean air.

The Psalmist reminds us in Psalm 150:6 that everything that has breath should praise the Lord. Take a moment, whenever you read this, and breathe deeply, filling your lungs with that which sustains life. Then find a quiet place and spend a few moments in the presence of the living God, breathing in that which sustains your spirit and nurtures your soul. Allow the Holy One to renew your spirit and give you that which is vital to your spiritual health. God knows the need of your heart...breathe deeply and take in that which empowers your living and enables your praise.

Let everything that has breath praise the Lord!

Jim Abernathy

Friday, June 3, 2011

Smile Because It Happened

A quote from the great American children's writer, Dr. Seuss, is perhaps appropriate for our Westwood family this weekend. Dr. Seuss writes, "Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened." We prepare to say good-bye to the McKenzies this Sunday. For the better part of a decade they have been a part of our church family, with Brandi serving on staff as Director of Preschool and Children's ministries most recently. Doug has been reassigned by the United States Air Force to the Virginia Beach area and the family will be moving in a few weeks. Saying good-bye is a familiar task in Northern Virginia. Folks come and go and our lives are enriched because of the blessing of relationship we share, regardless of the length of the days that we spend together.

Our hearts are already heavy as we realize that these dear friends will no longer be among us. However, as in any relationship where separation brings sadness, there must also be the remembrance of blessing in the midst of heartache, for our lives are truly enriched by so many folks who come our way, even when they are ultimately led away from us. So, with gratitude to God for the blessing we have shared with the McKenzies, let us gather on Sunday to give thanks to God for these dear friends and wish them well as they, and we, begin new chapters of the wonderful story God continues to write among us.

I hope you will be present for worship Sunday and express your love and appreciation to Doug, Brandi, and children. As a family of faith, Westwood sends them out to be the light and love of Christ in a new workplace, new schools, new home, and a new family of faith. Though sad to see them go, let us remember the blessings we have shared together, and then, let our smiles overcome our tears. For all that we have shared together, don't cry because it's over, rather, let us smile, because it happened.

Jim Abernathy