Friday, May 3, 2013

Make the Most of Every Moment


We have just returned from moving Clayton back home from the University of Kentucky after completing his freshman year of studies there.  The experience prompted a number of conversations over the last few days from how he did on his finals, to the poor performance of his beloved Wildcats in basketball this year, to what was, in my estimation, the most important conversation of all..."you're not going to live on the eighth floor again next year, are you?" (This I asked after descending and ascending eight flights of steps with all the stuff he had accumulated during the year when every elevator in the building was filled with other parents and students moving out!)  The one recurring conversation, other than my aching back, was how quickly we all thought this first year had gone.  We reminisced, as if it were yesterday, that we were ascending and descending those same steps and hugging good-bye last August. 

Most parents live in this rapidly moving time warp where life passes quickly and children seem to grow in an instant. In the Broadway musical "Fiddler on the Roof," the main character, Tevye, laments this passing of time as he contemplates his daughter's marriage with the powerful song “Sunrise, Sunset.”  In the song, his wife Golde bemoans, “I don’t remember growing older. When did they?   Writing of the brevity of life in Psalm 39, the Psalmist says, "Everyone’s life is only a breath. People are like shadows moving about."

Yes, these last days have served to remind me of how quickly the days, months, and years pass by.  I suppose one could lament such brevity, but that simply wastes more of the precious moments that we share.  No, the key is to make the most of every moment, celebrating every milestone, honoring every achievement, giving thanks to God for every breath...every shadow.

Breathe deeply today and take in all that God has for you.  Yes, time passes quickly.  As Tevye sings, "Sunrise, sunset, swiftly fly the years, one season following another, laden with happiness, and tears."  In everything, give thanks. Amen.

Jim Abernathy

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