Ephesians 4:25-32
Perhaps your mother, a teacher, or mentor once told you, "If you can't say something nice about someone, don't say anything at all." Such advice is reflective of a more positive approach that intentionally chooses not to focus on the negative. Some would characterize this attitude as less than realistic for one cannot always see and speak only the positive. In truth, we are often taught important lessons in the context of life's greatest challenges, even the harsh words that others sometimes say about us.
Paul challenges the Christians in Ephesus to understand that the words they use are to be building blocks to relationship. Their words should be "what is useful for building up...so that your words may give grace to those who hear." Paul isn't talking about insincere flattery here, but honest, thoughtful communication that offers what is best in the give and take of relationship. After all, in putting away bitterness and anger, we are to "be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ has forgiven you." Our words and actions, it seems, are to be a reflection of Christ.
Prayer: Living Word, we see and hear from you actions and words that build us up. Use our actions and words that we may be a reflection of you. Amen.
Jim Abernathy
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