James 1:16-20
“You must
understand this, my beloved; let everyone be quick to listen, slow to
speak, slow to anger; for
your anger does not produce God’s
righteousness.”
(James
1:19-20)
Most of us, at some time in our lives, have had a
conversation with someone whose anger clouded their perspective, disallowing
meaningful dialogue. No matter how
justified one’s defense, no matter the facts of the situation, anger controls
the moment and no words can penetrate that formidable barrier. Whether you have been the one whose anger got
the best of you, or whether you have been caught up in another person’s anger,
it is a circumstance that makes effective communication nearly impossible.
James’ words offer help for effective communication as he
encourages quick listening and slow response.
He calls those who hear his words to be intentional listeners who
approach communication in a redemptive fashion.
Here, one does not assume that he or she is always right and therefore,
others will always defer to his or her wisdom.
Rather, there is a sense of humility that is willing to consider that
another’s opinion has value and therefore should be heard. This doesn’t mean you will always agree, but
there will be more common ground found when one is quick to listen, and slow to
speak.
Prayer: Help me, Lord, to be quick to listen for your
voice that you may help me listen to others. Amen.
Jim
Abernathy
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